You feel like a doormat
If your partner stays out all night without calling, knowing you'll worry or lets you work three jobs whilst he spends all your money and behaves like a worthless bum, you're officially being used. The truth hurt - this isn't the behaviour of a man who loves or respects you - but the worst part? You just let him get away with it.
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You treat him like a king
He wants for nothing and lives in an immaculate palace yet you're exhausted and fraught with nerves. You're so worried that if you slip up or stop for a breather your man will notice his life isn't perfect and leave, disgusted by your slacking and slovenliness.
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You find comfort in the arms of men
Do you hook up with a different man every weekend but consider your actions less promiscuous than as a search for 'the one'? Deep down you know you'll never find Mr. Right this way and feel empty and dirty when he disappears in the early hours but for a night you feel immense comfort in being wanted by someone.
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You forgive too easily
He stands you up and sleeps with your so-called friends only to worm his way back into your affections, time and time again, with a wilting bunch of roses and a pathetic excuse. You forgive him and with every betrayal lose some self-respect, but you still think it's better to be loved meagerly by a no-good man than have no man at all.
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You are emotionally unstable
One minute you're packing your bags or throwing him out and the next you're begging for forgiveness, wailing down the telephone, desperate for him to come home. Unstable and unsure, your relationship is fuelled by pain and distrust yet you misinterpret the drama as passionate love.
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You always pick the wrong guys
Bad boys, married men and the emotionally unavailable attract you like a magpie to shiny things. Part of you knows that these men can or will never adore you like you deserve to be adored, but then that is part of the masochistic attraction.
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You give generously
You don't only offer your love copiously but your time, energy and money. If you constantly scour the internet for gifts or purchase thoughtful presents in your lunch hour for the object of your admiration, yet spend sparingly on yourself, it's likely you're trying to buy affection but despairingly receive nothing in return.
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You throw yourself at men
Firmly believing that love should not be left up to chance you smother every man you're attracted to, stalking their every move to make yourself available to them at every opportunity. Whether they are as enamoured with you is of little consequence as you've got love to give and he's going to get it whether he likes it or not.
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You are aggressively jealous
He listens when your girlfriend waffles on about her new job and makes small talk with your girlie workmates at the office party. He's simply being nice yet you're convinced he's just looking for someone better. Exhausted from paranoia you believe he is going to leave you unless you love keep temptation out of his way.
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You hate your mates' happy relationships
She swoons unashamedly every time he enters the room yet you think he's a two-timing, good-for-nothing heartbreaker. You've told her your concerns yet she falls further in love with him and grows further apart from you. Ask yourself this - are you jealous that they're happy or do you love her too much to let her go?
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